Combination of Personality Types, Zodiac Sign, and Numerology

 Get to Know Me 

My MBTI: INFJ (An Advocate) - Introverted, iNtuition, Feeling, Judging

  • 82% - Introverted
    • Prefer fewer yet deep and meaningful social interaction
    • Drawn to calmer environment
  • 56% - Intuitive
    • Imaginative, opened-mind, 
    • Focus on hidden meaning & distant possibility
  • 77% - Feeling
    • Value emotional expression & sensitivity
    • Prioritizing empathy, social harmony and cooperation 
  • 67% - Turbulent
    • Self-conscious
    • Sensitive to stress
    • Success driven
    • Perfectionistic
    • Eager to improve
What to know more about my MBTI
I am the rarest personality type in the world which make up < 2% of population
Known for warm empathy, keen insight and deep insight in human potential
Got much appreciation from others for helping and caring

    1. I'm on a different wavelength
  • Dominant Intuition
    • Explaining how the world work will be so difficult
    • Often feel isolated or misunderstood by others
    2. I'm a perfectionist and I'm procrastinate
  • A feel of wanting to succeed above and beyond everyone's expectation
    • Feel of failure sometimes
    • due to "ever-present desire" 
      • thrive for perfection
      • be procrastinate at the same time - due to the feel of "too big of a task"
    3. I'm perceptive and good at reading people
  •  Natural ability to understand people's emotional state and motivations
  • Relying on the intuition to seek for deeper level of someone's mind
  • Intrigued by how their's mind work and how that make everyone unique
    4. I have a small circle of friends
  • Quality > Quantity
  • Loyalty come from strong intuition
    •  -> highly selective 
    •  allow to separate people who are truly shares value from those who are fake
    5. I'm deeply empathetic
  •  Easily understand someone's emotions
  • Deeply understanding others' minds
    6. I cannot stand small talk
  • Extremely bored from smalltalk
    • Pointless and drained energy
  • Desire to have deep conversation
    • Get to know the value, feelings and emotions
   7. I'm future focused
  • Do everything I can to achieve personal goals
  • Have future focused insight
    • Thinking about next step to reach goal
    • Tend to be very critical about past experiences
    • Avoid feeling sad -> prefer loving a heavily natural focused lifestyle
    8. I'm gravitate toward people who need help
  • Often feel that I need to help people 
    • Drawn in those who want to open up
    • "Receiver of Information"
  • Big heart of empathy and compassion => form deeper relationship
    • also can be backfired
      • Will choose to help people out when they are in need despite of personal needs
    9. Tend to take "All-orNothing" approach to life
  •     Go hard or go home
    • Really get into things that they passionate in
    • Always valuing quality over quantity
    •   Seek for deeper truth & authenticity
    • Prone to burnout sometimes
=> Need to balance with self-care

    10. Natural talent for language
  •  Creative when staying alone
  • Channeling through writing due to difficulty of expressing words or communication
    11. Making decisions based on "Intuition"
  •  Critiques their environment and score it on how they feel directly
  • Fly with "Gut Feeling"  - rarely goes wrong
    12. I'm absolutely despise interpersonal conflict
  • Altruism and insightfulness
    • upsetting turbulence and instability
    • find it easy to pick on people's true motivations & feeling make the discord
  • Will try to comfort people after the conflict 
    • Ensuring that those people aren't hurt
    13. I'm concerned about what others think of me
  • Significant personal investment in getting to know people on a deeper lever
    • wanna make the world the better place
  • Quite sensitive to they believe they've not met someone's expectations
    • Feel like a failure on their end to not make things better overall
    •  You believe that pondering abstract philosophical questions is a waste of time.
    14.  I have principles etched ins stone (something is permanent/ cannot be changed)
  • Standard and Ethic
  • Ensure that things they do is meaningful
  • Passionately crusade to uphold their ethics and beliefs
    15. I'm always care
  • Always care about those who need help
  • Willing to risk wellbeing and neglecting things that I wanna do
    16. Feeling lonely in a group 
  • Extremely comfortable when they're alone
    • they're self-reflecting
    • Can be misunderstood by others because me, myself, cannot explain something
    17.  Self-Sabotage
  • Overthink too much too the point where ended up spoiling a happy moment
  • Always dig deep past the surface level of things
  • Negative thought can be spiked out of control 
    • huge obstacle in having the happiness
    18. Easily getting emotional drained by others
  • Keen intuition & inner sense
    • quick to pick up on the feeling and emotions of others
    • adopting them myself
    • Can be a very powerful counselor and advocate
  • Can be emotionally drained
    19. Rarely open up or Feeling like you revealed too much
  • Very reserved when it comes to expressing opinions and feelings
  • Always look strong in front people because always help them out
  • Retreat from social contact and solving them by myself
    • Once reached the limit, bursted out to others
    • And apologize them later! 
    20. I have inner guilt
  • Constantly feel and think that i'm somehow bothered the others
  • Brief conversation can leave wondering whether if my saying is right or wrong.
  • Always feel guilty for things that didn't go as others' need 
My DARK SIDE of INFJ

    1. Bottling up negative emotions
  • Rather keep problems to myself
  • Use to adapting the needs of other instead prioritize myself
  • Last out when someone wrong me
    2. Abruptly cutting people out of my life
  • Extremely sensitive and empathetic
    • end up experiencing an immense amount of emotional pain
  • Decided to cut people out from my life
    • sometimes it good to cut them off
    • sometimes it's too early to cut them off before thinking thoroughly
    3. Extremely high expectation
  • Setup high expectation for myself
    • tend to set high expectation for others especially:
      •  family, close friend, romantic partners
  • Might feel disappointing from being let down all the time
  • Make it hard for people to connect when there is unrealistic goals
    4. Moodiness
  • Prefer to hide my emotional
    • these emotions will effect my behavior
  • Might put people away for unknown reasons
  • Isolated myself from others and sought them until I can open up about them
    5.Self-destructive
  • Strong intuition can cause overthinking which created problems in my mind
    • Happen when:
      • Trying to find deeper meaning to someone's words or actions when there's nothing more than what they've said or done
      • Trying to predict what someone will do w/o giving them a chance due to similar situation had happened in the past.
    6.Stubbornness
  • Obsessive planning & Future oriented thinking
    • Must have things go the way that I planned rather than having to accept unexpected changes



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